Tips for Being the Best Make Your Spouse

Tips for Being the Best Make Your Spouse

Everyone in the world would want a person who's best for my beloved partner (lover) them. But to make it happen is not something easy to do.

There are several things to consider. Here are some tips that you can do yourself to become a better partner for someone who loved (love one).

* Be realistic with each other.
Do not try to change your partner into someone you want but do not fit with his personality. Let's accept the fact, for male friends, you must realize that there is only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world. Accept your partner as it is and DO NOT expect her physical appearance will change in an instant through several plastic surgery, or body treatment! And for female friends, Brad Pitt already have, so what you can do is accept your male partner as it is! Relax, love one another as it is (love one another). Sure there will always be a special value from your spouse other than what can be seen by the eye.

* Always talk about everything openly.
For male friends, this is not something easy to do and certainly not among the preferred way to solve the problem, but do you know? This method works very well for female friends. Do not speculate about the feelings for each other. Learn to express yourself better so that your partner can understand and comprehend what makes you angry, what can hurt your feelings, and can even understand what you are happy! When you and your partner stopped talking heart to heart, it means the beginning of the end of your relationship with him.

* Do all things together.
Try to frequently perform activities together. Exercising together or engage in social activities together as an example; all things that you and your partner can enjoy to do together. Can also through the activities of a favorite movie together, or just holding hands while walking together. For female friends watching football on television sometimes seem boring. And for male friends, occasionally accompany your female partner walking around shopping or just look around, rather than recommend him for a walk with my friends the other woman for "such activities". If you spend more time with your friends than with your partner, this is a sign that you both are heading the way farewell!

* Mutually adjusted to each other.
For female friends, if you want to get rid of the male partner jerseys worn by your favorite, you should also not nag or "nge-dumel" if he asks you to tidy up the room anda.Harus no give and take in a relationship, so always learn to adjust to one another.

* Every now and then express your love for him (express your love.)
For male friends, occasionally try to buy flowers, candy or perfume to your female partner from now onwards, even if your relationship has been running for 5 years or more. It is a very good attitude if we can still show our attention to someone who loved (love one). For girlfriends, it would not hurt if occasionally cook a favorite meal or just make Valentine cards (Valentine / love card) for male partners. It could also embroider socks can be worn, buy a bottle of milk for breakfast, or preparing keperluannya .. so he-she can know that you can still be romantic, despite being together in a long time.

* Mutual respect for each other.
For male friends, stop making jokes about your partner's hair or skin, or whatever else think it's funny. Ask yourself if he will not feel sad if you keep doing it. And for female friends, if your partner is experiencing a crisis of confidence, perhaps because he was not high enough and so forth, stop to glance / flirting with other men who may be higher than himself and made it look worse! Love is essentially about mutual respect for each other and feeling more sensitive to each other all the time.

* Forget the past.
Stop to discuss again (and again ...) about the past that are less pleasant. For female friends .... stop tell about those times when you're happy with your ex-boyfriend to your partner now, it will only make him jealous and unhappy. And for male friends, do not talk about the happy moments you shared your ex-lover or mention your name in every conversation with your partner that now, because it can be very hurt his feelings, made him feel sad and even he might think you said it because you want to go back with your ex-lover and have not love your spouse again today.

* Reduce jealousy little by little.
We all must have entered a period of "insecurity" in the early days of a relationship, but do not translate the feeling of discomfort such as a jealousy. If you begin to investigate any letters of your spouse, his personal items, often overhear the conversation, you will definitely realize there is something wrong - with you! Jealousy is like poison that slowly spreads in a relationship and will ultimately destroy it. Trust your partner; must have the element of trust in love.

* Maintain a commitment to one another.
If your partner begin to feel detached, cancel a date and violated many other promises, talk with him soon! If you're in a relationship, make your spouse a priority and as much as possible not to disappoint. Is a bad thing if someone has promised to invite you to dinner together, then call you to cancel it. Do not make promises you can not keep. If your partner begin to feel themselves not important enough for you, you may begin to lose it.

* Be honest. (Be honest)
Honesty is not about to comment on his appearance in the morning when I was just getting out of bed or about to disassemble all the shortcomings! when we talk "Be honest", our purpose is to express your feelings clearly, not be cruel. When you feel hurt, talk frankly, and when you feel angry, tell him, without being
hysterical. If you can not be honest with your partner, then with whom else can you be honest? Love (love) is also about honesty (honesty), and a relationship that is not based on honesty probably not worth it at all!Just for Share by enysuryo

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