Men do tend to ignore in many ways and sometimes very annoying. Usually when you have this, even if you nag or angry at him,
"Most men respond well to logical argument you say about why they had to change his bad habits," said Shelli Stutz, the founder ManFixer, as quoted from Shine.
So in fact, the key to changing bad habits is to give couples a logical argument. Here are some tricks so that the he could change the habits that often makes you upset:
1. Leave dirty clothes on the floor
Over the years, you often fix his dirty clothes scattered on the floor, dirty glass former, the ashes of cigarettes and many other things. Though he could easily do it yourself. This condition may seem trivial, but it definitely will get to a point where you are very upset.
Solution: "Let me see your position in this regard. He was always like that and you always fix it, then you are now angry at him? Muffled emotions and tell him, what do you want him to change the situation, "said Stuzz
Sounds simple but that's a fact. Men often do not do what you do not ask them to do so. Just tell him "It makes me upset and sad because I always fix everything. It would be helpful, if you did, dear ".
Do not forget to express your feeling happy and warm kisses when he is trying to do it.
2. Smart phone addiction
It is widely experienced by couples today. When you're alone and want to spend the evening with a romantic, that he is busy with his cell phone. Yet in the midst of a dense, have time to be alone must be very difficult. If allowed, of course the relationship could have problems.
Solution: Let him know that you do not like being alone when he actually bent down and busy itself, staring at the screen ponselnnya. Once he knew and realized, talking to find a way so that he could leave the habit.
Instead of saying, shouting "It seems you would rather see the phone screen than I do" better to say "Honey, I want your eyes while talking, cell phone can be turned off or saved first?"
3. Do not want to listen
This is a complaint many women. That's because women really know how to express what they want, to be heard and can share your emotions with their partner. However, the man opposite, often do not focus as talk to or at least to listen.
Solution: "Remember, when your partner loves you, he will do anything to please you. So, tell me clearly what you want though it trivial or mere opinion, "said Stuzz. If these continue to be done, you and your partner can continue to learn to listen, respect opinions and more understanding.
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